At an early age of 26, must attest to the fact that to truly gain experiences in life one must do or act. In respects to relationships. TO BE in LOVE is an AMAZING THING. Far from were money is a factor. BUT! To look in the eyes of your lover and breathe was they breathe. Smile as they smile. Truly, a beautiful thing. And, if ever you get to experience such a thing. Cherish it, and don’t let it go. Realism, of relationships is skewed. They are many UPs and Downs. But you WILL KNOW for yourself as to what is acceptable towards your standards. We as human beings, have our own philosophy in respects to what is acceptable in relationships; what’s acceptable to you. What we agree or disagree with. And, what we find acceptable for ourselves. Granted, life isn’t perfect. To let someone into your world and what makes you happy is a daunting thing to do. But whether good or bad. Chances must be taken. For if not then how would we really know about a person if we don’t give it a CHANCE. To give them a chance. No one single person on this earth is PERFECT but through effort and what’s important to you. Counts. Believe in yourself. Believe in your partner. Granted you’ll have to known for yourself. (And, you alone could only make such a call.) When to let someone go. But as an old tale goes, “If it’s not broke don’t fix it.” lol. Any who, enough of my ranting. Just a lil bit of venting through literary work. Hope this was a good read. It was fun typing this while drinking IPA’s lol. 🙂
Relationships in any fashion are truly beautiful from profession, casual, or most intriguing romantic and passionate relationships spark interest. However, most especially in the crosshairs of discussion would be romantic relationships. The relationship in which a man or woman would consider courting or intimate can be a beautiful thing. Now, first let me define my definition of ‘how it’s suppose to be’ when I think of this I can’t help but rethink to that Ryan Leslie song, ‘How it’s suppose to be’. However, I’m not speaking about music but in reference to a general public’s perspective or point of view of the matter but in regards to how we as human beings perceive relationships to be. I’m willing to bet that most not all would agree to some degree of my findings. Take into consideration what you have read are my own personal thoughts and opinions of the matter. In today’s Society we see so many couples that do not commit to marriage for personal reasons or other. My question or observation I’ve seen in my young twenty three years of living is that if a man and woman come together and a child is the product of a relationship in the matters of an unplanned birth. The ‘parents’ of that child or what we see in Society nowadays some not all choose to take on the role as parents and to raise that child. But not necessarily focusing on committing to each other in terms of a serious commitment to each other in terms of marriage. To me my opinion, marriage should be something a man and woman take seriously. However, maybe the concept of marriage varies from person to person and what they’ve learned about the concept. Whether being from what society has taught us or what we believe in personally. In reference to Beyonce hit song, “Put a ring on it” I have to agree…Simplistically, thinking if you like it or even in fact love it, then why not put a ring on it? Now, I know life is not that simple. And, for some there are a lot of factors to consider. But consider this, if life is short, why waste precious minutes, hours, and days of our lives. Let’s spend those precious moments in life with those we love. That saying, ‘Life is short’ is true. Not to get off topic but I guess mature relationships depend on the individuals involved in them. Not only that but I know if I found the ONE that made my world COMPLETE so to speak I would not waste my time with those other woman because they simple would NOT matter one bit. However, I have yet to find that person so LADIES if you’re reading this… I am SINGLE. Any who, I can’t help but reflect on my own relationship experiences I’ve had and I feel for those that have been in a serious mature relationship can relate. I recall my time with this young woman early in my college academic years. Time with her flew by with running around from class to work, work to home studying. Relationships are about the SIMPLE THINGS that really do matter. For, instance gazing at the stars while lying on the roof with your significant other, or perhaps walking around the lake to feed small ducks with bread as you walk by. As soon as I was with my girlfriend time as I knew it came to a standstill, as if there were some type of button to FREEZE time. And, I believe essentially that is IT! For those that spend their time wisely in relationships being monogamous versus promiscuous they’ll find like I found with my experience a BEAUTIFUL THING in which a relationship and how it’s SUPPOSE to BE.
I’ve been chasing this girl for too long. What is it going to take for me to create a song?
She know who she is a creative soul from the bay. A beautiful lovely musical soul I must say. Her sound, her voice is purely enough. To be her man is definitely a must.
See… She is the one that is the spark to my plug. She’s the one where I just don’t want to fuck but make love. I wonder if she knows if I exist. For if not then yeah I’ll be pissed! But not at her for she is not to blame. I’m just a man that needs to step up his game. All is far in love and war, may the best man win I truly implore. For she is amazing and I do adore. For one special opportunity to take the floor. Please say yes and give me a chance for perhaps movie dinner and just one dance. Hope she has a really good time- I’m just a simple man trying to make her mine :-]
Poetic art influenced and inspired by the lovely talented Mara Rhuby
This girl is beautiful, this girl is fine, this girl is everything I want. Why, lord can’t she be mine.
The way she walks, the way she moves, the way she does what she do, this girl…
Can’t even explain for you to comprehend but really truly I do is what I intend for this girl…
Her voice soothes my soul to point of no return
I met her one summer afternoon in water park this girl
was truly something special that definitely caught my eye
she’s the main reason I continued to pursue my dream this girl
is a singer…writer..musician.. most importantly she’s an artist.
So I say to this girl… You may not know that I’m there
but I wish you all the best please take care.
(Sigh)… I took so much time… time that I never really had to begin with.
You meant the world to me and for that I thank you for the joy and love
you brought into this world so without further a do,
I bring to you one of the most exclusive
things to my heart and that is why I see
your grace to every inch of love between us.
Source- Unknown: Something I came across over looking an Internet source. Cool fun facts though!
1. Follow Your Curiosity
“I have no special talent. I am only passionately curious.”
2. Perseverance is Priceless
“It’s not that I’m so smart; it’s just that I stay with problems longer.”
3. Focus on the Present
“Any man who can drive safely while kissing a pretty girl is simply not giving the kiss the attention itdeserves.”
4. The Imagination is Powerful
“Imagination is everything. It is the preview of life’s coming attractions. Imagination is more important than knowledge.”
5. Make Mistakes
“A person who never made a mistake never tried anything new.”
6. Live in the Moment
“I never think of the future – it comes soon enough.”
7. Create Value
“Strive not to be a success, but rather to be of value.”
8. Don’t Expect Different Results
“Insanity: doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results.”
9. Knowledge Comes From Experience
“Information is not knowledge. The only source of knowledge is experience.”
10. Learn the Rules and Then Play Better
“You have to learn the rules of the game. And then you have to play better than anyone else.”